My oldest was two and a half when his younger sister arrived. While I was expecting we’d chat to the baby, I knew she was a girl so we called her by her name when we talked to her. I was nervous, wondering how he’d be when she did arrive. Turned out he literaly wasn’t bothered by her at all until she started crawling and getting into his stuff 😂
6 Tips for Smoothly Navigating the Arrival of Baby Number Two | Newborn Photographer Dublin
15 May 2025
Let's be honest, introducing the newest member of the family to your older child can sometimes feel like navigating uncharted waters.
That’s because you are!!
As a mum myself I'm here to assure you that this journey, while occasionally bumpy, can also be an amazing bonding experience for your family!
Obviously, it's so crucial to prepare your older kiddos for the new baby.
This is a big change in their life and will shake up their world quite a bit.
But here's the good news, preparation is key (and you’re already starting that process by reading this blog!)
Let's talk specifics. What can you do NOW to prepare for the new baby?
Books
Start by reading books that talk about siblings and new babies.
"There's a House Inside My Mummy", by Giles Andreaw
"We're having a Baby: Adapting to a New Baby" by Marion Cocklico
"My New Sibling", by Tom Easton
They beautifully illustrate the ups and downs of having a new sibling.
Let the Older Sibling Help Prepare
As you prepare the baby's room, let your older child be involved! Allow them to pick out some nursery decorations, or a special gift for their new sibling. This involvement can help them feel like they're a crucial part of this new chapter.
Keep Communication Open
Leading up to the birth, and in the weeks following, it’s important to maintain open lines of communication. Ask your child how they're feeling, let them express any worries or fears, and affirm their feelings.
Let the Older Sibling Help After Baby Arrives
After the baby arrives, it's a whole new ball game. During this time, it's helpful to foster interaction between your older child and their new sibling. Let your older child "help" with the baby — maybe they can pick out the baby's outfit for the day, or sing them a lullaby, or simply talk to the baby. This can help them form a bond with the baby, and feel included in this new phase of your family's life.
Pre-arrange one on one time
But remember, amid all this, feelings of jealousy might creep in. It’s essential to reassure your older child that they're still loved just as much as before. Maybe you can arrange for some one-on-one time with them - a special movie night or a picnic in the park. It doesn’t have to be grand, what matters is spending quality time with them.
Keep Their Routine
Ultimately, keep in mind that as parents, you're their compass in this new territory. It's important to keep as much of their normal routine as possible.
Whether it's their beloved bedtime story, or that funny face you pull while having dinner, keeping some things the same can provide them with comfort.
And remember, every child is different and will react differently. It's about guiding them through this process with love, understanding, and patience.
My Experience
I hope this helped offer some ideas on how to make this transition a little more smoothly!
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